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Careers home and forums. Industry forums. More industry forums. Careers advice. Talk relationships. EU Students. Further information. News forums. Entertainment forums. Other interests. Home […] Forums Life and style Relationships. Confused about Clearing? Go to first unread. Skip to :. Anonymous 1. Report Thread starter 5 years ago 1. What can I do? I'm really sick of being called 'cute' and people saying I look 'innocent' when I'm closer to 30 years old than I'm often put in what I would call the little sister zone even by men that are younger than me.
Men don't take me seriously and they infantilize and desexualize me. There hasn't been a single occasion where a guy hasn't called me 'cute' when we got talking and they always end up going with a woman who is actually hot in the end.
I don't even feel like I can be a grown woman or fully sexual because I look like a young teenager. I prefer and want to date older men aged but the only ones that approach me are perverts who think I'm underage get off on that. I've tried dressing older, wearing heels, smart tailored clothes, red lipstick etc. Basically I look like a 'try hard' and it's so frustrating. I have never been in a proper relationship. I am at the age now where if I don't get going soon it may be too late for me to have companionship and a family and to be honest I'd rather kill myself than be a cat lady.
I know if I were smoking hot I would have men eating out of the palm of my hand, not that I aim for that but what I'm saying is I would have the future I dream of laid out for me just like I would just have to lye back and take my pick! I just want a nice, wholesome guy who I can care for. Even if I do the approaching first they always go off in the direction of some bad-ass chick I'm sorry I'm tired, can't think of another word who usually treats them like rubbish and nags.
Seems that's the kind of woman they want and that ropes them in and deep down that's what I think I am going to have to become to get anywhere in the life.
If any guy is attracted to innocence like I seemly have that is only to corrupt it and take advantage i. I'm thinking of trying to look like the opposite and increase my sex appeal. Attitudeclothes etc? I'm sorry that was so long. Please help me before I have to start buying the cats x. Not what you're looking for? Report 5 years ago 2. Doesn't sound like there's much you can do tbh. If you're trying to look older and it isn't working, stop trying so hard and the right guy will come. I'm told I look about 18 years old all the time, but I'm hitting I'm called cute constantly and honestly I feel kinda blessed to look youthful, you'll be grateful when you're older.
Timing is everything, try and focus your energies elsewhere. Before you know it you'll find someone. Also where are you meeting guys? Report 5 years ago 3. Thought women didn't want to be sexualised Either way, wouldn't you prefer if a guy likes you for how you are than how you appear to be? Or are you fine with just looks? Sexiness has alot to do with attitude as well, so sort of play coy and flirtatious and hard to get n stuff. DanteTheDoorKnob Badges: 5. Report 5 years ago 4. Original post by donutellme Thought women didn't want to be sexualised. Report 5 years ago 5.
Nothing wrong with looking young.
You just need to find yourself a Zac Efron or someone who looks young but is actually quite older. Report 5 years ago 6. You can't turn off your sexuality, most people want to feel desired in the sense that people actually approve of them, you can practice a bit of modesty and self control but the idea that women don't want to be seen as 'someone to have sex with' is extremely harmful, because it makes people feel guilty just for expressing interest.
It's only harassment or 'viewing someone as a sex object' when your intentions are dishonest and creepy. Report 5 years ago 7. Report 5 years ago 8. Original post by Anonymous What can I do? Report 5 years ago 9. Report 5 years ago Original post by animeamanda basically this is what you should do Original post by kirigiri so glad you made a suicide joke. MrsSheldonCooper Badges: Some guys find innocent looking girls sexy. I find the title funny and cute. Posted from TSR Mobile. Zarek Badges: Don't under estimate the power of 'girl next door' well played.
Plus, surely it's easy to vamp it up a bit with choice of clothing and lifestyle. Get a bad girl coach.I want cute and sexy
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